Sometimes we like our brokenness. We controlling own lives, even if we can’t control anything. But, hey, if we crash and burn, at least we did it on our terms.
This phrase of "Do you WANT to get well" was pivotal in my journey back to health. The unknown and dislike of change makes it easier to not make needed changes. Also, there is a consequence in getting well. That is people will expect more from you. Many prefer to stay unwell to avoid having to do more in life as being unwell was a crutch that worked well for most for years.
Powerful truth, Amy! In working with trafficking survivors, we've learned that it often takes them several tries to finally break free of their exploiters, because all the victim's coping and defense mechanisms were built around their old situation. Freedom is actually scary for them.
This phrase of "Do you WANT to get well" was pivotal in my journey back to health. The unknown and dislike of change makes it easier to not make needed changes. Also, there is a consequence in getting well. That is people will expect more from you. Many prefer to stay unwell to avoid having to do more in life as being unwell was a crutch that worked well for most for years.
This is so true! Praise God for how He patiently waits for us.
Powerful truth, Amy! In working with trafficking survivors, we've learned that it often takes them several tries to finally break free of their exploiters, because all the victim's coping and defense mechanisms were built around their old situation. Freedom is actually scary for them.
Change is always scary, and our self-defense mechanisms feel safe. So thankful God's power is able to tear down our strongholds.