Love when you don't feel it

If love is "natural," why is it so hard to get right?

We love each other because he loved us first. (1 John 4:19)

Love is hard. And I’m not even talking about the romantic kind, which has its own difficulties and challenges (from what I’ve been told).

Our culture has gotten really confused about the idea of love in the last decade or so—maybe longer. Love isn’t a complicated idea at its core, yet we’ve twis…