Listen to your alarms

If you've set up boundaries in your life, pay attention when someone crosses them. And respond.

When I was a kid, my brother and I would go over to our friends’ house to play video games every Wednesday afternoon. We were such nerds. To keep this short, we’d play shooter games for hours, and one of the “weapons” you could use in combat was something called a proximity mine.

Basically, you’d throw them down all around your character, and if you wer…