Is God happy about what you just said?
You may not care about some person's feelings... but what about God's?
Have you ever been the third wheel in a conversation that was spiraling away from civility? It’s not fun, is it?
Although, if heated discussions are part of your love language, than you might look forward to the potential for a verbal sparring match. But even then, as much as you may appreciate a debate, if people are intentionally hurting each other, it’s not something we should enjoy.
Any other Enneagram 9s in the house?
For me, it’s this horrible sinking feeling in my gut. It makes me want to crawl under a fuzzy blanket and not come out for a year. I hate conflicts between people, especially people I love, and I can often see it coming from miles away, just based on what people say and how they say it.
If hurtful words make us feel bad, how do you think they make God feel?